Perhaps I am more of an “orgasm” addict than I am a “masturbation” addict.  Whichever way it is, they both lead down the same path…

As much as I would love to have a nice hard cock fucking me or a sweet thing between my legs eating me to climax any day of the week.  I don’t always have access to a ready and waiting team of hungry sex addicts every time I feel the urge. I have a few “tasty treaties” I call on when I can, but that’s not always the option…I have taken to carrying a mini vibe to get me through the days of lately.

I need to get off at least four or five times a day. My sex drive seems to have gone through the roof! This has been going on for quite  some time now! The only way I can stay completely satisfied is to sneak away and masturbate several times a day . I’m not sure if it’s my hormones or what but lately it has been completely out of control.

I can barely even go to the grocery store without feeling to burning want to make a quick stop in the ladies room to get myself off.The other day I was doing my usual run around the store and there was this  sexy lady that made the crutch of my pants burn. I couldn’t finish my shopping, I had to leave my shopping straight away and find a quiet place for me to slide my fingers deep inside my pussy until I came.

I have taken to staring at guys crutches too. I hear you, that’s not such a bad thing, well, until you get caught which is quite embarrassing. I was picking up a few items at the store earlier this week when I saw this guy who almost made me cream my pants right there in the cereal aisle. He was no movie star either, just an ordinary bloke with a bulging crutch! I could actually feel my panties moisten as I caught myself staring at the bulge in his shorts. I quickly pushed my trolley over to another aisle and shortened my shopping trip AGAIN!

After I left the store I started thinking about  the bulge in his pants and then the visuals began. I saw one of my girlfriend squatted before him with her lips around his hard cock. I pictured myself seated on a chair watching the whole thing while I rubbed and teased my clit until I couldn’t stand being ‘left out ‘ any longer.

Right there in the grocery store carpark, I tilted back my seat a little and slid my fingers right into my wet steaming pussy lips and masturbated until I came. I didn’t really care if somebody saw me, or passed by. Perhaps I secretly wished somebody did, and just got straight in and joined me. I left there feeling almost ashamed of my actions, but I still wasn’t completely satisfied.

I need a serious something to get me through this time. Be it he or she, but whoever, must be pretty dam hot in the cot and be completely certain he or she can totally satisfy my pussy.

The reason I am telling you this is because I know you are reading this wanting to be that he or she - well if you haven’t taken 10 minutes out to learn what will drive me insanely mad and begging for more, then I suggest you do it HERE… There is no room for disappointment when my pussy is HOT RIGHT NOW!!.

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xx Your Heidi xx

Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It’s a fact that men and women are different and that extends to achieving sexual pleasure as well. Take for instance the topic of orgasms; men reach their climax sooner than women. Period.

Unfortunately, since the reasons WHY a woman does not reach an orgasm as fast as a man are not explored, what happens is that the sexual relationship generally develops into one where reaching her orgasm is not even an objective!

Society has a lot to do with this. It seems that women, in general, have been raised with the mentality that when it comes to sex, his orgasm is the goal. As for her, it’s ok; it’s natural that she doesn’t reach an orgasm. And while couples easily accept this, what most people don’t realize is that a woman not reaching her orgasm is actually the root of MANY relationship problems.

Relationship Problems Caused by Your Partner Not Reaching an Orgasm

Sexual Frustration. Imagine if you have sex with your partner and you’re never given the chance to reach your climax. That’s a dreadful thought, isn’t it? You probably wouldn’t even call it ‘having sex’ at all. Think of all that frustration inside you that just grows after each time you have sex. Well, it’s the same for women!

Even though it would take longer for women to reach the point of ‘sexual frustration’, they will reach it one way or the other. And this frustration will manifest itself in many different areas in your relationship.

Resentment. You can’t blame women for wanting what they see as an obviously great and pleasurable experience for you. If you don’t take the time to learn how to bring her to an orgasm, then she will soon begin to resent your ‘selfishness’ in bed. After all, why should you have all the fun? You may find great techniques here…

Again, this resentment may start small but sooner or later, it will grow and reveal itself in other areas of your relationship. For instance, she may become short-tempered with you, and you will see this as simply her being annoying or a nag. Do you see how this can easily become a big problem in your relationship?

Decrease in Sexual Intimacy. For many women, instead of discussing the topic of female orgasm with their partners, they deal with their sexual frustration by turning to other things such as using sex toys or engaging in self-pleasure or masturbation. While using pleasure toys and pleasuring one’s self is not bad at all, using it as a permanent substitute to reach an orgasm is!

Pretty soon, the act of making love itself will look less and less thrilling for her. After all, she knows she can get greater pleasure from her sex toys and through masturbation than by making love with you. As a result, she will be less and less inclined to engage in sex.

And now the tables have turned. As she loses interest in sex, now YOU are the one who’s going to start to feel sexually frustrated. Find new ways to recover sexual creativity here…

Relationship Withdrawal. When physical intimacy decreases, overall relationship closeness begins to decline as well. You see, if you don’t make love, you also don’t reach that magical moment called ‘afterglow’, when a couple truly bonds after having sex.

Think about it this way: each day that you don’t make love, is a day that brings the two of your further and further apart.

Infidelity. If a woman gets to experience sexual pleasure only through sex toys and by the use of her own hand, and if this makes her lose interest in the sexual act itself with you, then imagine how ‘easy’ it can be for her to fall for another man!

If a woman meets a person who can bring her tremendous physical pleasure that no one has ever given her before, isn’t it logical that she would fall head over heels over this person? After all, in her eyes, it’s this person who truly cares about her. Otherwise, why would he go to such great lengths to pleasure her?

Female orgasms are not often talked about but in reality, a lot of relationships suffer the consequences of women not reaching their climax. So if you want a great relationship, one that’s also characterized by great sex, then the best thing you can do is to ENSURE you know how to make her reach her climax. To learn more, click here…

Good luck!

9 o’clock Saturday morning and I am booked in for my day of pampering. The usual girly things, hairdressers and a tidy up with the waxing lady, followed by a pedicure. Oh how I love my Saturdays!I bounce out of bed and jump straight into the shower. Out comes my favorite body wash and skin loofah to lather the fragrance all over my soft skin. The water is warm and the steam pushes the fragrance deep into my nostrils clearing the aroma of the night before. I wash my face and jump out into the cooler air as I dry myself and dress in something light.

I rush out the door in a light flowing dress, I grab a piece of fruit for a breakfast on the go. By 9.30 I am seated in the hairdressers chair watching and waiting for the seductive blonde at the basin come over and escort me to a seat. She comes smiling with a fitted baby pink low cut t shirt. I can see her pert breasts rise with each breath and her padded lace bra through the fabric. She looks a little rushed this morning. I hope not as I enjoy the feel of her soft fingers running through my hair.

At the basin she wraps a towel around my neck and instructs me to recline in the chair as she gently washes away the night before. Then she applies the conditioner as she gently drifts into space as she massages my head in auto pilot, completely oblivious to the fact that I am getting wetter and wetter dreaming up fantasies of her naked with her fingers sliding in and out of my pussy.

I can smell her breath and feel her warmth against me as she strokes my head up and down, up and down, firmly and softly, teasing the crown of my hair.  My pussy is starting to swelling my panties, I am not so sure how long I can hold on to the need to massage my clit and cum.

Snapped back into reality, the hairdressers swings by, telling her she is ready for me at the bench.  An hour flies by and my hair looks divine. I feel like a lioness with a golden man, thick and flowing. Next stop waxing at 11.00

There is something very special about being waxed, all hairless and soft. I feel so clean and fresh and the desire to wear no underwear is more a pleasure. Unlike most girls I go every 2-3 weeks, why?? No I am not into the pain, but rather into my waxing girl…..

Her room is very clinical and white. The light is bright. The beauty table is firm but warm. She always lies heated towels down to relax you. Lying down with your legs spread as far as they can be can be quite intimidating  to some. I quite enjoy it. I enjoy the fact that the girls who do the waxing for a job seem to not even notice your ‘personal bits’ apart from the hair.

Stella we will call her… She greets me with her usual charm, “Oh you have just had your hair done. It looks stunning.” Thank-you I reply and blush slightly as she places her arm just on my back guiding me into her room. I feel all of a sudden, like I am doing something very sneaky and everybody knows…

“Brazillian I assume.” she says as she wipes her hand across the table watching my eyes for reaction. “Of course,” I mumble. “There aren’t too many stray hairs but enough for you to remove.” I laugh back at her as I start to remove my lower half clothing. I jump up on the bed and wait for her to approach and ‘inspect’ the area to be waxed.

“I see” she says as she  nears me. I lay back and part my legs remembering how turned on I was at the hairdressers. My vaginal lips feel sticky from being wet and I am sure she is looking at just that. She brushes her fingers over my pubic region, feeling for hairs and takes a deep breath in contemplation. I know she is smelling my juices from only hours ago.

I part my legs a little more so my lips just split. She slides her fingers almost down to my anus feeling for hairs along the opening. My legs on instinct open a little wider and she looks up at me and smiles. The anticipation is killing me. I can feel myself getting wet again from just the thought of her looking and being so close to me. My lips are parted and my clit is starting to swell again.

I can feel the heat of her fingers still lingering. I slowly push my hips down towards her fingers just so the tip of them touch the wetness I now feel flowing within. Stella looks up at me and smiles again. Her eyes tease me with desire as her finger gently slides into my burning wetness. Without a word she parts my lips to expose my clit and lowers her head to between my legs. I lay back and close my eyes as I feel her warm tongue dance on my clit as her finger slides in and out of my wet pussy.

Her fingers slowing slide in and out, just teasing my g spot as I am becoming more and more aroused. Her tongue slides to my wetness and slowly tasting me. I can barely hold back from climaxing. She pushes her tongue deep into me, fucking me with her tongue, then her top lip smothers my clit. With the slightest pressure I can’t hold back any more and I bury my face into my hands as I cum silntly so as not to alert anybody else in the salon.

“Nice” say Stella as she pulls her moth away from my burning heat. “You don’t have enough hair there, perhaps we’ll do your armpits.” I agree. In less than 15 minutes I am dressing and thanking Stella for a great session. We leave the room and head to the counter.

I am booked in again in another 2 weeks………..

I have a colleague, Alex Allman, who is in the same business as me… giving advice to men to
help them get the most out of their sexual relationships… in fact, you could even say that
we are “friendly competitors.”

Recently I had the chance to read through his book, and I’ve got to say… it’s GREAT.
One of the best things about it is that, it is ritten from a very different point of view and
with very different information from Gabrielle’s eBook…

In fact, if you’ve been reading my stuff for  while, I think that Alex’s stuff is the perfect
complementary resource you might have been looking or.

He comes at it from a very “relationship-centered” oint of view, and… my favorite part…

He has an entire chapter on “female ejaculation” that is the best, step-by-step guide that I have
ever seen on the subject in an eBook.

How’s that for giving your woman a surprise tonight?
Interested in learning more about my friend Alex?

I very highly recommend you check out the video he has posted here:

And please write me back and let me know what you think of it.

Kisses!

Heidi xoxox

by Gabrielle Moore

A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I’m all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex!

I’m sure you want your woman to feel this too so I’m going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready?

How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage

In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.

Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.

CLICK HERE: To learn more tips about how to satisfy your lover tonight.

Use your hot breath

Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.

Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!

Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.

Use your fingertips

Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.

Palm circling

Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.

Gliding

Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.

Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.

A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.)

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Thumbing

Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).

Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus.

Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic!

Learn more tips to satisfy a woman in bed HERE

According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!

A lot of flack fall on men on why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.

6 Reasons Why Women DON’T Climax

There are many reasons why women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…

Foreplay? What foreplay?

Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of extending your own sexual stamina.

She’s thinking too much!

Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework, dirty laundry, etc.).

She’s full of… insecurities.

Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small/big?

If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”

ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!

She really doesn’t know her own body.

There is a certain art form to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right?

The best thing is… it’s never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here are some clues to save you a few steps…

YOU’re not paying attention!

True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close!

To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts. Click here to learn more…

YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.

Men like to try different sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again.

So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.

Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do it here…